Tuesday, 05 August 2008
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The Non-Believing Christian
I've been a member of Revelife for less than a week now. It disturbs me to see the lack of conviction in Christians on this site. There are those on this site who are not Christians and reading everything we post. Perhaps, it's because they're curious and would make a decision to follow our Lord, or maybe it's to find fault in our beliefs.
I see us divided amongst each other, bickering and arguing. However, worst of all, we disregard much of the book that sets the premise for our entire faith. Why?! Do you dismiss it because it makes you uncomfortable? The excuse I see a lot of is, "That is no longer relevant to our culture." Perhaps, that is because we have allowed ourselves to blend with our culture. Romans 12:2 says, "Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - his good, pleasing, and perfect will." Stop being like everyone else! Don't compromise God's Word for the sake of fitting in. Are you afraid people will scorn you and mock you if you stop conforming? "If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you." John 15:18-19. I know how badly rejection hurts, I know the need to fit in. We are not called to fit in with the world though, we are called to be a light in the darkness. "You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven." Matthew 5:14-16. Yes, we may be mocked, rejected or even persecuted, but Jesus said, "Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven." Matthew 5:10.
The culture we live in today is a very sick one. There are murders near our home towns every day. Sexual immorality runs rampant in our society. We have been desensitized to cursing and violence. As Christians, some of us have become so acclimated to worldly things that we no longer feel convicted participating in them. I think the sex thing is the biggest issue. A woman I once considered a godly woman came to me before I was married. I was saving myself for my wedding night. The woman said, "You need to move in with Daniel." "WHAT?!" was my reply. "To see if your are sexually compatible before you marry him. You wouldn't buy a shoe before you try it on, would you?" I cannot tell you how stunned I was. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 says to flee from sexual immorality. We are to have nothing to do with it. Matthew 5:39-42 says not to resist an evil person, but to turn our other cheek if we are struck; to not only give him our tunic, but also our cloak. If we are forced to go a mile, go two. "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this you will heap burning coals on his head." Romans 12:20. "Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth." Matthew 5:5. Profanity has permeated through our culture. You can hardly go to a PG movie without more than a few curse words. I had never even heard the "F" word until I graduated highschool... now, you cannot pass a day without hearing it. I live in a heavily trafficked area and not a week goes by I don't get the finger. One lady flipped me off when I accidentally made eye contact with her. Philippians 4:8, "Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-- if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-- think about such things." We cannot expect to call violence, profanity, sexual immorality, or even greed any of the things listed above. We cannot say that movies, or music, or reading pop culture magazines have no effect on us. Whatever we put into our hearts will come out again. We cannot not make good things come from our mouths if our heart is filled with filth. Matthew 15:18-19, "But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these make a man 'unclean.' For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander." Remember the old saying, "Garbage in, garbage out?" "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God." Matthew 5:8.
It breaks my heart to see Christians, my brothers and sisters, rationalizing away the Bible. We cannot dismiss God's word. "All scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness." 2 Timothy 3:16. Do we honestly think we can outsmart God; to skirt around his commands? He made us!!! He can see our hearts. "Who has known the mind of the Lord? Or who has been his counselor?" Romans 11:34. I think we are beginning to do exactly what Paul warned about in 2 Timothy 4:3-5, "For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry." We surround ourselves with preachers and teachers that tell us what we want to hear... not what the scripture teaches. They make us feel like better people when we move in with a boyfriend or girlfriend, when we curse some one in anger, when we watch the inappropriate films. "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves." Matthew 7:15. They help us make being a Christian easy. It was never meant to be easy... "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perserverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." James 1:2-4. We are supposed to praise God for our troubles, not try to dodge them. Hardship is what strengthens our faith.
Jesus said, "If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him. He who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me." John 14:23-24. When we disobey God's teaching (the scriptures) we are kicking dirt in his face. We are not loving him, we are insulting him. We can't love Christ when our hearts are filled with worldly things. He cannot dwell in a heart full of sin. Christians, we are being watched, weighed, and measured by the lost. I know of three regular commenters on Revelife who have blatantly stated they are not Christians. Why would they want to be the way we behave? We don't act any differently than they do; we bicker and argue amongst ourselves, and condemn them for the sins that we commit in secret, or even right in from of them. "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposistion from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart." Hebrews 12:1-3. We have to purge our lives of things that keep us from leading godly lives. Be it crude movies, profanity, unholy relationships, media that fill our heads with secular ideals; we must get rid of those obstacles to even begin to love the Lord.
My challenge: get rid of your hindrances. Remove from your life the things that keep you from having a relationship with Christ. Throw out the things that do not honor Him. Not only will you be happier, you will not cause your lost friends to stumble or find fault in your faith. It's time to stop being wishy-washy pansy Christians. Have some guts and follow Christ like you actually love him.
Kimberly
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Hi, Kimberly. Thanks for your comment. I am sorry to hear about your loss. That is so hard. I will pray that God will "open your womb" and that all will go well.
I agree with this post. I have also noticed that certain non-Christian people are commenting on Revelife, probably to stir up arguments so they can "catch" us in some hypocrisy. And on the other hand, certain "Christians" on here argue with each other instead of demonstrating love toward one another. Pride has always been one of Satan's best tools and unfortunately we fall for it under the guise of wanting to "prove our point." Rather we should approve the Word of God and not our own opinions.
Amen! Thank-you for this post. It's refreshing to actually see a genuine believing Christian on revelife. I have been really disappointed and shocked at the things I have been reading on here. Thanks for taking a stand and speaking the truth.
Kimberly, I came to read this post at the recommendation of a friend. I've actually avoided revelife and refused to subscribe/friend because the few times I've visited and read, it didn't seem genuine to me for many of the same reasons you named. Not that we should be surprised. Seems to me that something sponsored by xanga is not likely to be the real deal in regard to a faithful walk with Christ, life with Him as Lord and Savior. We have to remember that the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and few are those who find it; we aren't going to be surrounded by masses who agree with us as we walk in obedience to our Lord. Just like in our churches, it's not the numbers that matter - whether it's number of people or amounts of money - but genuine faith in and obedience to our Lord.
Thank you so much for taking the time to post your thoughts on this, Kimberly. I think the last paragraph is positively the best. It sums it up. It reminds me of the Old Testament kings who are mentioned over and over in the Kings and the Chronicles, of whom it reads that they failed to tear down the high places (of idol worship), even most of those who served God and did what was right in His sight otherwise. We have to get rid of it ALL. I'm blessed and encouraged by your boldness, commitment, and faithfulness. I'm praying that He will use you for great things in His kingdom. ~Susan
@Godseeker82@xanga - Thanks for reading. Thanks also for the link to the video. My name is Kim and I'm from the Fort Worth area. I can't figure out how I might know you.... my only guess is that we crossed paths at a homeschool convention or something like that.
@MercifulGrace@xanga - Thank you for taking time to comment. You're absolutely right about the way being narrow... it's still dissapointing though. Have a blessed day.
@londonpiano@xanga - Thanks. I'm happy to be bold :)
@MrsDoubleU - Thank you for your prayers... I'll keep you in mine as well :)
great post
I personally don't mind that non-Christians can see the doubt and disagreements on issues between Christians. I think that we spend too much time pretending to be perfect so the world will be attracted to us, but I am very sure that nobody is fooled by this. We aren't perfect and if we hide our struggles, non-Christians will just feel like they can't trust us to be honest. Or, even worse, they'll feel like they can't become Christian because they aren't perfect yet, either.
And if some Christians have different ideas about how to walk the Christian walk, well, we just need to be patient with them. We all come to God along our separate paths, and it could be that those of us who are very correct about things like sexual purity may be missing our other very real spiritual problems, like arrogance, smugness or intolerance.
Good post.
Sometimes I think that some good ol' fashioned persecution would be good for the church in America. I think that right now, we have far too many "cultural Christians" and not enough real ones. I think that if we were persecuted for our faith here, we'd "weed out the weenies" much easier.
The Bible is clear that even the demons believe and tremble...and unfortunately, I believe that many ppl that we find on Sunday mornings in a church building are just the same...
Such a lovely post! Excellent! Excellent!!! ----I came here though the recommendation of Godseeke82.
I have not visited the site you mentioned but it isn't a site that I would hang out on anyway. You have peaked my curiousity toward the site though.
I believe that Christians are more influential in leading people to Christ not through debat or blogs (although I do like to debate --- I have a bachelors degree in Religion and one in Libeal Arts Education and use what I learn quite often to bring truth to life with Scripture) but find that people are more influenced through the family unit. It is hard to rationalize the BIBLE away when you see a Family Unit loving Christ.
@Camarige@xanga - That is something my husband and I strive towards in our marriage; to be a picture of Christ's love. Thank you so much for commenting :)
@Clay_in_His_Hands - Is the horse yours? Such a beautiful icon.
@Camarige@xanga - Yes, that is Cappie. She's a nine year old American paint horse. She has the greatest personality too. She's my baby :)
@Clay_in_His_Hands - I bet she is!!! My little gal is 4 and she takes horseback riding lessons. Through her lessons I am learning a lot about horses. She keeps telling me that she would just be happy taking horseback lessons and we don't need to waste money on piano lessons. (giggle)
Once again, Excellent post!
RYC:
I've talked with the leader...she knows why I'm no longer involved with the program. She disagrees with me completely. I've also talked with another leader within the specific program, who apologised to me for what happened, and said that she understood/respected my decision to not continue. I think that she was just sad that it ever happened to begin with. As for my friend, I'm not quite sure that I'm obligated to explain, in its entirety, my reasons for leaving. On top of that, I'm not quite sure how to without, on at least some level, talking "poorly" about the leader in question. Not necessarily in a mean/spiteful way, but in a nutshell, I think that her behaviour was inappropriate for a leader, for various reasons. If she has not acted this way toward my friend, I don't necessarily think that it will do any good for me to tell her how she acted inappropriately towards me. Does that make sense?@hubbaduh@xanga - absolutely. I'm sorry crap like that goes on in ministries, but what do you do right? Good for you for following your heart and abstaining from speaking badly of her. I hope you find a good place to plug into and continue serving.
Sorry if it looked like I butt in... I had no intention of being overbearing. I hope you can find a peaceful solution to your problem.
Kim
You definitely weren't overbearing AT ALL. I really appreciated your comment actually
It definitely got me thinking if I was handling the situation correctly, and if there might be a "better" way for me to handle it.
Right now I'm trying not to stress about it too much. My current plan at the moment is to move to another country before the end of this year (this isn't related to the issue at the church). I've been asked by a missionary that I know to travel with her for a few months in the beginning of 2009 as her personal assistant. So I know that God is doing stuff in my life...that He has a plan and purpose for me, even if things at the moment are a little rocky. Thankfully, no matter what is going on, God is still good
@hubbaduh@xanga - Amen to that! I'm glad you specified that you weren't leaving the country because of church...lol. Well, I'm glad I wasn't overbearing, I know a lot gets lost in translation over the internet. I hope the moving thing works out for you, that is super exciting. My hubby and I are hoping to move to England in a couple years... his company is over there and we both have a heart for mission work. Maybe one day.... :)
England?! Really??? I'm actually moving to Scotland
My mom was born and raised there, and almost all her family is still there. Both my parents passed away while I was still in high school, so it's pretty much just me over on this side of the pond. I totally understand about stuff getting "lost in translation" online...I try to give ppl the benefit of the doubt, though I'll admit I'm probably not always very good at it...lol...
@hubbaduh@xanga - OH!!! I'm so jealous. We want to move to Scotland so badly. Where in Scotland will you be? My husband is of Scottish descent. The family castle is Drum Castle just west of Auberdeen. His company is just South of London... a little too far to comute from Scotland :( But hey, it's still England right :) Best wishes for your big adventure!
I plan on moving to the capital, Edinburgh. It's where all my family is. I've been over there about ten times....I just absolutely adore the place
Awesome post. Thanks for writing. I sometimes wonder why
non-christians( a few of the same people all the time I've noticed)
even care to read or comment on revelife and it occurred to me that
they are probably trying to justify why they don't want to follow
Christ. They probably have this huge hole in their life and they know
something is missing, but for whatever reason have turned away from God
and need to believe that they can do whatever they want and not need to
be condemned for it so they twist the words of the bible so it's seems
logical. But really it's clear that they are only searching for
personal satisfaction and are in denial. I think that's the case with
some Christians as well, they don't want to have to change their
lifestyle to be complete followers in Christ, so they have to prove
that somehow (by the bible) it's alright for them to make some bad
choices. Once again, amazing job explaining the truth. Please continue
to let your light shine on those like me who need it.
We really do need, as Christians, to be "growing in grace" every day. You have stated very clearly what Christians need to be doing and the uncompromising stand we need to be taking. If we are not 'growing' then we are 'shrinking' and our Christian testimony is diminishing to the point where it were better that people did not even know that we are Christians.
I am thankful for Xanga, and try to stay out of the types of arguments that become "knock down - drag out" fights. I feel that Christ is honored when we can learn to disagree gently and lovingly in such a way that people can't miss that we actually care about them.
May God wonderfully continue to bless you and to make your life (and your blog) a great blessing to many others!
David
Psalm 23
The Shepherd Psalm